Ndumi is a published author of Handle Black Tax Like a PRO – Setting Boundaries, Improving Relationships and Achieving Freedom, a book about how to strike a healthy balance of helping family or relatives while you allow yourself to thrive through the practice of healthy boundaries.
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Handle Black Tax Like a Pro a PRO – Setting Boundaries, Improving Relationships and Achieving
Freedom asserts that black tax is not so much about money as it is about boundaries.
Requests for money by parents, siblings and other relatives carry a mental and emotional
price, affecting our relationships with our loved ones and with money itself. Helping others
is commendable, but how do you do it in such a way that you avoid debt and stop the
poverty cycle for future generations?
Ndumi Hadebe presents ten stories based on real situations – from absent yet entitled
fathers and siblings’ expectations to being overly indebted in the name black tax and people
judged for wanting a lifestyle different to those around you. Each story explores different
themes and complexities on the black tax spectrum, followed by reflections on how each
situation could have been handled in a way that is peaceful and non-threatening to your
relationships with loved ones – through the practice of boundaries.
Handle Black Tax Like a Pro is an engaging and practical guide that will provide you with a roadmap of how to effectively address this ‘elephant in the room’ with love and compassion; how to identify what your boundaries are and how to communicate them in a way that is nurturing to yourself and those on the receiving end of your black tax. The book is available at Exclusives, Bargain Books and Take-a-Lot.
Ndumi is a published author of Handle Black Tax Like a Pro – Setting Boundaries, Improving
Relationships and Achieving Freedom, a book about how to strike a healthy balance of helping family
or relatives while allowing space for personal financial goals - through the practice of healthy
boundaries.
The more Time-Money-Energy she invested working on this book, the more she realised that
boundaries are the basis of self-preservation and self-love; and concluded that it’s impossible to lead
yourself in the direction of your vision or goals without a clear assertion of boundaries in the various
areas of life.
She has more than a decade of corporate experience and another as an entrepreneur – consulting in as a capacity development expert for world renowned brands such Ernst & Young, Nordex SA, Sasfin Bank, University of Johannesburg and Bureau Veritas Zambia. Her business endeavours are supported by a BCom in Marketing and an NLP Certificate for Coaches and a deliberate ongoing lifestyle of learning and healing.
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